aok

yeh mera pehla mail hai iss section mai cuz mai kaafi pareshaan hun

meri eldest daughter is 10 mager bey hud rebellious hai,she acts actually like we use to do with her when we r angry

mashaAllah bey hud zaheen hai from playgrp till now when shez in 4th grade she takes the position in her class as well as in the whole school

she misbehaves when we want her to do any particular job.like when its her studies time and she keeps on watching cartoons.I ask her to turn off the tv but she never listens,and when i turned off the tv she used to yell.

regarding scolding a child ,i believe that when kids dont listen to thei parents maa ko majboor hona perta hai

yeh choti thi to mai ney no doubt issey scold bhi kia hai.jiss ka zimmedar merey ghar wley mujhey thehratey hain

they said k uss ney yehi tareeqa seekha hai ,mai ik sawal poochon kia jin bachon ki main strict hoti hain kya sabhi bachi aisey hotey hain .Hamari kabhi himmat nahi pari apni maa per yell kerney ki.marey inlaws iss sey bht piyar kertey hain ,kehtey hain theek hojay gi saari khawahishaat iss ki poori ki jaati hain,piyaar bhi hum log iss sey kertey hain.hamari family mai ik khatoon ain jo sherr ki nazer rakhti hain aur bbt ghussaiyyar hain mager un k bachey zara zaban nahi kholtey

aap mai sey koi hai jo mujhey iss masley kaa hal bataey 

thanks

Elizeh

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ELIZEH FARAZ

sorry sis main nai ajj he app ke post nai pary hai.......app ke problem main nai pary hai...yeh app ka nahee mostly mothers ka hai....app ziyada fiqar na kiya kareein.....iss umer main pachay kartein hootein hai.....


app appny bachee ko ziyada danta mate kareein...iss say woh our ziyada bhageein hoo geay gee
ouss ko payar say samjayeein....app ka piyar app ko baddal day ga
ouss par shouted mat hoon.....knou keh woh app ke copy karteein hai.........bete maa ka reflaction hooteein hai...
app ouss say saat appnay chootay chootay massiyal(problems) disscuss kareein...iss tarhaan woh miture hoo gay gee our app ke baat ko samjah geee......chahay woh problem koi be hoo....bachay app ko samjah gay

app bete ko chotay chotay kam joo app ke nazar main achay hai jassy papers or test etc main pass hoona iss par ouss ko gift dayeein....is tarhaan say be woh app ke baat manay gee

appnay bachoo par onn kay baaap ka da daleein....oun kay samnay on ke complain maat kareein balkeh iss baat ko aik black damkeh he bana kar rakeein...iss tarhaan say be bachay app ke baat maneein gay.....

appnay bachoo ko assay bachoo ke example day kar samjaheein keh .......dakooo oun kay pass kuch be naheein hai but they r serviving....but u have every think but app allah kay shukar addah naheein karteein....our appnay parents ke be baat naheein karteein......for example assay bachoo ke example day joo parents kay na hootay howay be iss duniya main study kar keh achay gartes par job kar raheein hai.....chahay woh log app kay zehaan main khayaleein kerdar he hoon

doosara app nai zikar kiya hai keh app ke bete kay pass duniya ke her cheese hai....iss cheese nai be app ke beete ko hudsir kar deeyah hai......app appney bete ko her cheese day but ous waqt jad woh koi acha kam karteein hai.......~(merey mother ass he karteein thai)



end main main sirf yah kahoo geee.......
sister panch waqt ke nammaz parheein our kissy aik naamaz kay baad "SURRAH-E-SAF" 3 martabah par kar water main phonk maar kar appney bete ko iss ka water pilaeein ..........inshaallah ....ALLAH app ke beete ko theek kar day ga......

Thanks alot for your answers mai to samajh rahi thi keh bus log post khali perh rahey hain koi bhi jwb nahi dey raha
aap sb ney sahi kaha hai khas kar k aaj k bacchey mukhtalif hain Inshaallah mai try koshish karun gi haan albatta yeh baat albatta uss ko reward ussi waqt deyti hun jab woh studies ziyada karey ya apna kamra mend karey
thanks once again

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ELIZEH FARAZ

Aok
Faiza first of all thanks for your concern
Well i will try my best

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ELIZEH FARAZ

Dear Elizeh i just read your mail my daughter is 5 years old she is always doing like me and behaving with other children like me .i m also strict about children especially when they wake mess but u know we r not children so our behavior should be change with children we should control our self and always talk in good manners .i tried to ignor her when she do wrong.and try to appreciate her many times in a day u also try do this .today she said to me l am Mama what u do i do if u speak harshly i will also and if u speak politely i will also do. isurprised what she is saying but its fact children adopt our attitude.positive ur self and ignor her when she is furious.Heartly pray for her and give sadqa in daily basis bcz sadqa museebutoen ko door kerta hay'thanks